There is always a different side to someone

different side to someone

You have just met someone new and he seems to be the most wonderful/awful guy in the world. You spoke for only a few minutes, but you could tell how confident/anxious he is, it was so inspiring/tiring! We have very acurate senses that help us to determine who someone is and how he makes us feel. We unconsciously label someone after a first impression, and this label often sticks, as our mind wants to create clarity. We see only black and white, where reality is gray. The guy that you met and who seemed to be wonderful might have seemed to be an awful person at first sight if you had met him one week later. We fall in love …

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What do I want out of Life?

What do I want out of life

It is such a simple question. Who am I? Where am I? What am I? What do I want out of life? So many of us try and live the way we want, to fulfill our dreams. But are those dreams really our dreams? Do you know who you truly are? What makes you tick, what makes you happy? What would you do if there was no one in the world to take notice of? Would you do the same as you do now? I don’t know what your answers to these questions are. But for me, I happen to have no clue. I have always tried to choose what I wanted to do, but have I really done that …

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How to Pursue Happiness

pursue happiness

What is the purpose of life? It is merely to exist, to produce offspring, to work as hard as you can, to praise (a) God, make as much money as possible, pursue happiness, or to live a fulfilling, meaningful life? There are so many answers, and I believe all of them can be true, as long as you believe in that meaning, and that meaning feels fulfilling to you. For myself, I believe the meaning of life is to live your life to the fullest, being as happy as you can be, fulfilling your dreams and potential, and living in a true, respectful and loving way. I believe that being as happy as you can possible be can never be …

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